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Awake Quote by Nicole Krauss

“You’re lost in your own world, in the things that happen there, and you’ve locked all the doors. Sometimes I look at you sleeping. I wake up and look at you and I feel closer to you when you’re like that, unguarded, than when you’re awake. When you’re awake you’re like someone with her eyes…” quote by Nicole Krauss
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“You’re lost in your own world, in the things that happen there, and you’ve locked all the doors. Sometimes I look at you sleeping. I wake up and look at you and I feel closer to you when you’re like that, unguarded, than when you’re awake. When you’re awake you’re like someone with her eyes closed, watching a movie on the inside of your eyelids. I can’t reach you anymore. Once upon a time I could, but not now, and not for a long time.”

Nicole Krauss

About This Quote

Source Novel: The History of Love by Nicole Krauss, 2005

The speaker feels a deep emotional distance from a loved one who is emotionally closed off, longing for the vulnerable moments when they seem more accessible.

In simple terms: Feeling distant from someone who hides their feelings.

Key Takeaway

Cherish moments of openness.

Themes

loneliness intimacy communication

Mood

melancholic reflective

Type

literary emotional

When to use this quote

  • relationship struggles
  • mental health
  • personal reflection

Key Concepts

emotional distance vulnerability memory

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you bridge emotional gaps without forcing openness?
  • What does “unguarded” truly mean to you?
A Different Perspective

Even when someone seems unguarded, true connection may still be elusive.

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