Being in love Quote by Nicole Krauss
“When you are young, you think it's going to be solved by love. But it never is. Being close -- as close as you can get -- to another person only makes clear that impassable distance between you.' If being in love only made people more lonely, why would everyone want it so much?' Because of the illusion. You fall in love, it's intoxicating, and for a little while you feel like you've actually become one with the other person. Merged souls and so on. You think you'll never be lonely again.”
About This Quote
Source Novel: The History of Love by Nicole Krauss, 2005
Love is portrayed as an illusion that temporarily masks loneliness, but deeper connection often highlights the inherent distance between individuals.
In simple terms: Love feels like a fix but often deepens loneliness.
Key Takeaway
Recognize love’s limits and seek authentic connection.
Themes
loneliness
illusion
connection
relationships
Mood
melancholic
reflective
Type
philosophical
literary
When to use this quote
- marriage
- friendship
- therapy
- self‑reflection
Key Concepts
existentialism
psychology
romantic idealism
Questions to Reflect On
- How does love both unite and separate people?
- Can true intimacy exist without feeling alone?
A Different Perspective
Love cannot fully erase personal isolation.
