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“Sometimes apparent resemblance of character will bring two men together and for a certain time unite them. But their mistake gradually becomes evident, and they are astonished to find themselves not only far apart, but even repelled, in some sort, at all their points of contact.” quote by Nicolas Chamfort
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“Sometimes apparent resemblance of character will bring two men together and for a certain time unite them. But their mistake gradually becomes evident, and they are astonished to find themselves not only far apart, but even repelled, in some sort, at all their points of contact.”

Nicolas Chamfort

About This Quote

Source Essay: Maximes, 1736

People may seem similar at first, but deeper differences emerge, causing separation and even repulsion over time.

In simple terms: Initial similarity can hide deeper incompatibility.

Key Takeaway

Beware of superficial similarity.

Themes

relationships misunderstanding identity

Mood

reflective cautious

Type

philosophical observational

When to use this quote

  • friendships
  • business partnerships
  • romantic relationships

Key Concepts

psychology compatibility selfawareness

Questions to Reflect On

  • Do you judge relationships by surface traits?
  • How can differences be constructive?
A Different Perspective

The quote assumes all differences become negative, ignoring growth through conflict.

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