“What others say and do is often based entirely on their own self-reflection. Do not give your power away , do not let them poison you with their own pain , you can help them wishing them well, but remember that people behave in such ways because they are in a place of great suffering. People react to their own thoughts and feelings and their behavior often has nothing directly to do with you. Everyone has baggage, so dont be ashamed of yours. Be patient and find someone who loves you enough to help you carry it and unpack. Do not look for the perfect person , look for the person who brings out the best in you. Surround yourself with people who make you a better person, and let go of those who dont.”