Feels Quote by Naoki Higashida
“But I ask you, those of you who are with us all day, not to stress yourselves out because of us. When you do this, it feels as if you're denying any value at all that our lives may have--and that saps the spirit we need to soldier on. The hardest ordeal for us is the idea that we are causing grief for other people. We can put up with our own hardships okay, but the thought that our lives are the source of other people's unhappiness, that's plain unbearable.”
About This Quote
Source Speech: Autobiographical talk, unknown venue, 2010
The speaker worries that their existence burdens others, causing guilt and emotional strain, which threatens perseverance.
In simple terms: Feeling responsible for others' unhappiness can cripple motivation.
Key Takeaway
Recognize limits of responsibility and seek support.
Themes
guilt
burden
resilience
empathy
Mood
reflective
somber
Type
personal
psychological
When to use this quote
- personal relationships
- mental health counseling
- team dynamics
- caregiver support
Key Concepts
existential anxiety
self-worth
psychological burden
Questions to Reflect On
- How does your perceived impact compare to reality?
- What boundaries can protect your well‑being?
A Different Perspective
The feeling of being a source of others' pain may be exaggerated and not fully accurate.
