Dear Quote by Nancy Mitford
“Oh dear... it really is rather disillusioning. When one's friends marry for money they are wretched, when they marry for love it is worse. What is the proper thing to marry for, I should like to know?”
About This Quote
Source Novel: Love in a Cold Climate, Nancy Mitford, 1949
The quote questions the motives behind marriage, suggesting both financial and romantic reasons lead to unhappiness, and seeks a more authentic purpose.
In simple terms: Marriage motives cause misery; searching for true purpose.
Key Takeaway
Seek marriage based on mutual respect and shared values.
Themes
marriage
motivation
authenticity
Mood
reflective
skeptical
Type
philosophical
critical
When to use this quote
- family planning
- relationship counseling
- personal reflection
- cultural commentary
Key Concepts
social critique
human nature
Questions to Reflect On
- What values should guide a lifelong partnership?
- How can couples balance affection and practicality?
A Different Perspective
It may idealize love without addressing practical realities.
