Aging Quote by Muriel Barbery
““... we absolutely mustn't forget it. We mustn't forget old people with their rotten bodies, old people who are so close to death, something that young people don't want to think about (so it is to retirement homes that they entrust the care of accompanying their parents to the threshold, with no fuss or bother). And where's the joy in these final hours they ought to be making the most of? They're spent in boredom and bitterness, endlessly revisiting memories. We mustn't forget that our bodies decline, friends die, everyone forgets about us, and the end is solitude. Nor must we forget that these old people were young once, that a lifespan is pathetically short, that one day you're twenty and the next day you're eighty.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Elegance of the Hedgehog by Muriel Barbery, 2006
A reminder that aging brings physical decline, loneliness, and bitterness, urging society to honor and support the elderly in their final years.
In simple terms: Old age is lonely and often ignored.
Recognize and cherish the elderly.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- nursing homes
- family caregiving
- community programs
- intergenerational activities
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How can we change attitudes toward aging?
- What actions can reduce elderly isolation?
Societal neglect often persists despite good intentions.