Compassion Quote by Milan Kundera
““All languages that derive from Latin form the word "compassion" by combining the prefix meaning "with" (com-) and the root meaning "suffering" (Late Latin, passio). In other languages, Czech, Polish, German, and Swedish, for instance - this word is translated by a noun formed of an equivalent prefix combined with the word that means "feeling". In languages that derive from Latin, "compassion" means: we cannot look on coolly as others suffer; or, we sympathize with those who suffer. Another word with approximately the same meaning, "pity", connotes a certain condescension towards the sufferer. "To take pity on a woman" means that we are better off than she, that we stoop to her level, lower ourselves. That is why the word "compassion" generally inspires suspicion; it designates what is considered an inferior, second-rate sentiment that has little to do with love. To love someone out of compassion means not really to love.””
About This Quote
Compassion is defined by Latin roots as feeling with suffering, contrasted with pity which implies superiority and condescension; love based on compassion is seen as inferior.
In simple terms: Compassion means sharing suffering, not feeling superior.
Recognize the difference between genuine empathy and patronizing pity.
Themes
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When to use this quote
- cross‑cultural communication
- ethical discussions
- personal relationships
- literary analysis
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How does language shape our moral concepts?
- Can compassion be a foundation for love?
Compassion can be misinterpreted as weakness or insincerity.