Dreams Quote by Miguel Serrano
““I don’t remember well, and in fact I know nothing absolutely nothing at all, about the women I have loved.' Papan answered: That simply means that you have never loved. You simply have no idea of love as an absolute concept. Loving is knowing. It is also like a crime since it involves death, burial, and resurrection. Love is something very serious. Today it is completely forgotten. Love in fact is a strange and secret chemistry, in which the androgynous is born. This is true and complete love; everything else is different. Have you ever noticed how impossible it was to fuse yourself with the person you thought you loved, even though sleeping in the same bed? There is always something separating you, a thread of air, a different dream. Can the lovers be truly united if each one dreams a different dream? If you ever begin to dream the same dreams as your love, then you will be able to create the new star, the star of Him-Her, El-Ella.””
About This Quote
Source Book: The Secret of the Androgynous Love, 1990
Love is portrayed as an absolute, transformative force that unites souls, yet most people experience only fragmented, superficial connections.
In simple terms: True love is deep, uniting, and rare.
Seek profound connection beyond surface.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- marriage
- long‑term partnership
- spiritual practice
- creative collaboration
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What does it mean to truly know another?
- How can we move beyond superficial bonds?
Love is often idealized, making true unity difficult to achieve.