Coincidence Quote by Michelle Hodkin
“And that for every negative event or coincidence that has happened since, imagining that you triggered them, that you made them happen makes you feel like you possess a degree of control that you don't have.”
About This Quote
Source Interview: The Psychology of Control, Podcast, 2021
Imagining personal responsibility for random events gives an illusion of control, which can be comforting but misleading.
In simple terms: Thinking you caused events feels like control.
Key Takeaway
Recognize true limits of control.
Themes
psychology
perception
control
Mood
analytical
cautious
Type
psychological
inspirational
When to use this quote
- decision making
- risk assessment
- personal reflection
Key Concepts
Illusion of control
causality bias
Questions to Reflect On
- When have you blamed yourself for random outcomes?
- How does this belief affect your stress?
A Different Perspective
Overemphasis on control can cause anxiety.
