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Children Quote by Merrie Haskell

“Child, you do not forgive because the person who wronged deserves it.You misunderstand the point of forgiveness entirely. The only cage that a grudge creates is around the holder of that grudge. Forgiveness is not saying that the person who hurt you was right, or has earned it, or is allowed to…” quote by Merrie Haskell
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““Child, you do not forgive because the person who wronged deserves it.You misunderstand the point of forgiveness entirely. The only cage that a grudge creates is around the holder of that grudge. Forgiveness is not saying that the person who hurt you was right, or has earned it, or is allowed to hurt you again. All forgiveness means is that you will carry on without the burdens of rage and hatred.””

Merrie Haskell

About This Quote

Source Interview: Podcast “The Art of Letting Go”, 2020

Forgiveness frees the forgiver, not the offender; it releases personal burden and prevents resentment from imprisoning you.

In simple terms: Forgiveness releases your own pain.

Key Takeaway

Let go of grudges to lighten your heart.

Themes

forgiveness emotional health personal freedom

Mood

relieved hopeful reflective

Type

advice inspirational

When to use this quote

  • relationship conflict
  • personal trauma
  • daily irritations
  • workplace disputes

Key Concepts

psychology mindfulness emotional resilience

Questions to Reflect On

  • What grudges are you still holding?
  • How could releasing resentment change your daily mood?
A Different Perspective

Forgiveness may feel like condoning harmful behavior if not paired with boundaries.

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