Love Quote by Mercedes Lackey
““often, one can be in love with who they think someone is, while being blinded by their own desires. And just as often, instead of being in love with a lover, one is in love with love.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Last Herald-Mage series, 1990s
People often fall for an imagined version of a partner, confusing desire with reality, and sometimes love the idea of love more than the person.
In simple terms: Loving an idea, not the person.
Key Takeaway
Recognize and love the real person, not fantasies.
Themes
love
illusion
desire
self-awareness
Mood
reflective
melancholic
thoughtful
Type
philosophical
emotional
When to use this quote
- dating
- marriage
- friendship
- self-reflection
Key Concepts
attachment theory
projection
idealization
Questions to Reflect On
- Do you love the person or the idea of love?
- How can you see beyond your own desires?
A Different Perspective
Idealizing can blind you to genuine connection and cause disappointment.
