Deserve Quote by Mercedes Lackey
“Not forgiving someone hurts you worse than it hurts him...even if he doesn't deserve to be forgiven...Not forgiving someone is like not pulling a thorn out of your foot just because you weren't the one who put it there.”
About This Quote
Holding onto resentment harms the holder more than the offender, even when forgiveness seems undeserved.
In simple terms: Resentment hurts you more than them.
Release grudges to heal yourself.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- personal relationships
- conflict resolution
- mental health
- stress management
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What grudges are you keeping?
- How might letting go change your wellbeing?
Forgiveness can feel like condoning harmful behavior.