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“Forgiving is, first of all, a way of helping yourself to get free of the unfair pain somebody caused you.” quote by Lewis B. Smedes
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“Forgiving is, first of all, a way of helping yourself to get free of the unfair pain somebody caused you.”

Lewis B. Smedes

About This Quote

Source Book: The Art of Forgiveness, 1990

Forgiveness frees the forgiver from lingering hurt caused by others.

In simple terms: Letting go of pain helps you heal.

Key Takeaway

Release resentment to heal yourself.

Themes

forgiveness healing personal growth

Mood

reflective calming

Type

advice inspirational

When to use this quote

  • relationship conflict
  • personal trauma
  • self‑care
  • mental health

Key Concepts

psychology emotional resilience

Questions to Reflect On

  • What pain are you holding onto?
  • How could letting go improve your wellbeing?
A Different Perspective

Forgiveness may not change the offender’s behavior.

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