Firsts Quote by Lewis B. Smedes
“Forgiving is, first of all, a way of helping yourself to get free of the unfair pain somebody caused you.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Art of Forgiveness, 1990
Forgiveness frees the forgiver from lingering hurt caused by others.
In simple terms: Letting go of pain helps you heal.
Release resentment to heal yourself.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- relationship conflict
- personal trauma
- self‑care
- mental health
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What pain are you holding onto?
- How could letting go improve your wellbeing?
Forgiveness may not change the offender’s behavior.