Husband and wife Quote by Megan Marshall
““from a very early age . . . that I was not born to the common womanly lot. I knew I should never find a being who could keep the key of my character; that there would be none on whom I could always lean, from whom I could always learn.” In time she would become convinced that she was not meant to experience “more extended personal relations” and that “self-dependence,” as she called it, would have to suffice, making her a lone “pilgrim and sojourner on earth.” Her questing would never end, and she must learn to “be my own priest, pupil, parent, child, husband, and wife.” But for now, she felt only anxiety about the future.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Woman Who Walked in the Moon by Megan Marshall, 2015
A woman believes she cannot rely on others and must fulfill all roles for herself, leading to anxiety about the future.
In simple terms: She feels she must be self‑sufficient and alone.
Key Takeaway
Embrace interdependence and seek supportive relationships.
Themes
self‑reliance
anxiety
identity
loneliness
Mood
reflective
concerned
Type
philosophical
motivational
When to use this quote
- career planning
- personal relationships
- mental health counseling
- self‑development workshops
Key Concepts
existentialism
psychology
feminist theory
Questions to Reflect On
- How might trusting others change your life?
- What roles can you share with others?
A Different Perspective
Overemphasis on independence can hinder emotional growth and community support.
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