Best friend Quote by Meg Wolitzer
“The minute you had kids you closed ranks. You didn't plan this in advance, but it happened. Families were like individual, discrete, moated island nations. The little group of citizens on the slab of rock gathered together instinctively, almost defensively, and everyone who was outside the walls—even if you'd once been best friends—was now just that, outsiders.”
About This Quote
Describes how families become isolated groups when children arrive, turning outsiders into strangers.
In simple terms: Families become closed off after kids, treating others as outsiders.
Key Takeaway
Be aware of social shifts after parenthood.
Themes
family
social dynamics
isolation
parenthood
Mood
reflective
empathetic
Type
narrative
observational
When to use this quote
- novel excerpt
- essay
- personal essay
Key Concepts
group behavior
social boundaries
Questions to Reflect On
- How does parenthood change social circles?
- What can families do to stay inclusive?
A Different Perspective
May overgeneralize family experiences.
