Toga Quote by Meša Selimović
““Oborio sam pogled. Nikad čovjek ne smije misliti da je siguran, ni da je umrlo što je prošlo. Ali zašto se budi kad mi je najmanje potrebno? Nije ona važna, ta daleka, sjećanje na nju zamjenjuje skrivenu misao da je sve moglo biti drukčije, pa i ovo što me boli. Odlazi, sjenko, ništa nije moglo biti drukčije, i našlo bi se nešto drugo da boli. Ne može biti drukčije pa da bude bolje u ljudskom životu.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: “Derviš i smrt” by Meša Selimović, 1966
The narrator reflects on the futility of safety, the inevitability of change, and the pain of loss, suggesting that nothing can be truly different or better.
In simple terms: Safety is an illusion; change and loss are inevitable.
Embrace impermanence and find meaning despite pain.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- grief processing
- life transitions
- acceptance of mortality
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you find hope when change feels painful?
- What can you learn from loss?
The idea that nothing could be better may hinder hope and growth.