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“We kissed and I closed my eyes and inhaled lavender and her, and I felt so terrified and so in love that I realised they - the terror, the love - were one in the same thing.” quote by Matt Haig
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““We kissed and I closed my eyes and inhaled lavender and her, and I felt so terrified and so in love that I realised they - the terror, the love - were one in the same thing.””

Matt Haig

About This Quote

Source Novel: The Midnight Library by Matt Haig, 2020

Intense love can feel terrifying because both emotions stem from deep vulnerability and desire.

In simple terms: Love and fear can be the same feeling.

Key Takeaway

Embrace vulnerability, trust your emotions.

Themes

love fear vulnerability intimacy

Mood

intense reflective

Type

literary emotional

When to use this quote

  • romantic relationships
  • self‑discovery
  • creative writing

Key Concepts

psychology emotional resonance

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does recognizing fear as love change your relationships?
  • What does vulnerability teach you about yourself?
A Different Perspective

Fear can overwhelm and paralyze, limiting connection.

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