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“Bear in mind, people with eating disorders tend to be both competitive and intelligent. We are incredibly perfectionistic. We often excel in school,athletics,artistic pursuits. We also tend to quit without warning. Refuse to go to school,drop out,quit jobs,leave lovers,move,lose all our money. We…” quote by Marya Hornbacher
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“Bear in mind, people with eating disorders tend to be both competitive and intelligent. We are incredibly perfectionistic. We often excel in school,athletics,artistic pursuits. We also tend to quit without warning. Refuse to go to school,drop out,quit jobs,leave lovers,move,lose all our money. We get sick of being impressive. Rather,we tire of having to seem impressive. As a rule,most of us never really believed we were any good in the first place.”

Marya Hornbacher

About This Quote

Source Memoir: Wasted: A Memoir of Anorexia and Bulimia, 1998

People with eating disorders often excel academically and competitively but also experience abrupt quitting and self‑destruction.

In simple terms: High achievement coexists with self‑sabotage.

Key Takeaway

Balance achievement with self‑compassion.

Themes

mental health achievement self‑sabotage

Mood

reflective empathetic

Type

supportive insightful

When to use this quote

  • academic settings
  • sports teams
  • creative fields

Key Concepts

perfectionism identity emotional regulation

Questions to Reflect On

  • What drives the need to appear impressive?
  • How can one cultivate self‑acceptance?
A Different Perspective

Perfectionism can mask underlying distress.

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