Child Quote by Mary Sheedy Kurcinka
““My Webster’s dictionary defines spirited as: lively, creative, keen, eager, full of energy and courage, and having a strong assertive personality. Spirited—it feels good, sounds good, communicates the exciting potential of these children, and yet honestly captures the challenge faced by their parents. When we choose to see our children as spirited, we give them and ourselves hope. It pulls our focus to their strengths rather than their weaknesses, not as another label but as a tool for understanding. The Characteristics Each spirited child is unique, yet there exists distinct characteristics in which more is very apparent. Not all spirited children will possess all of the following five characteristics, but each will exhibit enough of them to make her stand out in the crowd.””
About This Quote
Source Book: Spirited Children, 2015
Describes “spirited” as a positive, energetic trait in children, encouraging strengths‑focused view rather than labeling.
In simple terms: Spirited means lively and courageous.
Key Takeaway
Focus on strengths, not deficits.
Themes
parenting
education
child development
strengths‑based
psychology
Mood
supportive
encouraging
Type
educational
psychological
When to use this quote
- classroom
- family counseling
- parent‑teacher meetings
- child therapy
Key Concepts
growth mindset
positive labeling
resilience
empowerment
Questions to Reflect On
- How can parents balance encouragement with discipline?
- What supports help spirited children thrive?
A Different Perspective
May overlook challenges of high energy behavior.
