Child Quote by Mary Sheedy Kurcinka
““Living with the “raw gem” of a persistent child is not easy. To tell these kids no, to thwart their efforts, is to risk their wrath. Even as infants they are incredibly determined and strong. They push where other kids don’t push. They demand more than other kids demand. And they never give up. It is nearly impossible to ignore them or distract them. In every situation they meet us head-on, ready to do battle. Persistence is the temperamental trait that plays a major role in power struggles. Spirited kids need, want, and seek power. But we can learn to choose our battles wisely. We don’t have to fight every day. By recognizing our children’s drive and goal orientation, we can teach them to channel their persistence appropriately—to use it as an asset rather than a weapon. We can be a problem-solving family where persistence and commitment to one’s goals is celebrated, and the ability to work with others is a honed skill.””
About This Quote
Source Book: Raising Strong Kids by Mary Sheedy Kurcinka, 2015
Children with strong will are relentless, often challenging authority, but their drive can be guided into constructive teamwork and problem solving.
In simple terms: Persistent kids are determined and can be hard to manage, yet their energy can be channeled positively.
Key Takeaway
Guide their drive into collaboration.
Themes
parenting
determination
teamwork
conflict resolution
Mood
determined
reflective
hopeful
Type
advice
inspirational
When to use this quote
- family meetings
- school projects
- sports teams
- home chores
- conflict mediation
Key Concepts
psychology
developmental dynamics
motivational coaching
Questions to Reflect On
- How can we redirect stubbornness into cooperation?
- What boundaries help maintain healthy persistence?
A Different Perspective
If not balanced, persistence may become aggression or burnout.
