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“I think, as we go through life, we can sometimes, while still staying essentially true to ourselves, pick up mannerisms or modes of expression that are like curlicues. And there was a lot of that that I recognized sometimes. And I remembered, sometimes dimly, why those phrases felt so tasty to me…” quote by Mary Gaitskill
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“I think, as we go through life, we can sometimes, while still staying essentially true to ourselves, pick up mannerisms or modes of expression that are like curlicues. And there was a lot of that that I recognized sometimes. And I remembered, sometimes dimly, why those phrases felt so tasty to me, why that particular curl felt so good to me. But from my point of view now, it was almost inaccurate. It changed the meaning of what I was saying in a way that it seemed like a distortion.”

Mary Gaitskill

About This Quote

Adopting affected speech patterns can feel authentic yet may distort original meaning over time.

In simple terms: Mimicking styles can alter intent.

Key Takeaway

Stay true to original voice.

Themes

language authenticity distortion

Mood

reflective thoughtful

Type

philosophical inspirational

When to use this quote

  • writing workshops
  • public speaking
  • social media

Key Concepts

communication theory self‑expression

Questions to Reflect On

  • When did you notice the shift?
  • How can you reclaim your true voice?
A Different Perspective

May lose personal authenticity.

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