Accurate Quote by Iris Murdoch
“Yes, of course, there's something fishy about describing people's feelings. You try hard to be accurate, but as soon as you start to define such and such a feeling, language lets you down. It's really a machine for making falsehoods. When we really speak the truth, words are insufficient. Almost everything except things like "pass the gravy" is a lie of a sort. And that being the case, I shall shut up. Oh, and... pass the gravy.”
About This Quote
Source Interview: The New Yorker, 1975
Language cannot fully capture human emotions; attempts to define feelings often distort truth, making speech a vehicle for falsehoods.
In simple terms: Words fail to express feelings accurately.
Key Takeaway
Accept the limits of language.
Themes
communication
truth
language
emotion
Mood
reflective
melancholic
Type
philosophical
observational
When to use this quote
- personal relationships
- therapy
- creative writing
- public speaking
Key Concepts
philosophy
linguistics
psychology
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you convey deep feelings without precise words?
- Can silence be more truthful than speech?
A Different Perspective
Language can be refined with metaphor and context, though never perfect.
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