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Absence Quote by Mary Astell

“Every one knows, that the mind will not be kept from contemplating what it loves in the midst of crowds and business. Hence come those frequent absences, so observable in conversation; for whilst the body is confined to present company, the mind is flown to that which it delights in.” quote by Mary Astell
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“Every one knows, that the mind will not be kept from contemplating what it loves in the midst of crowds and business. Hence come those frequent absences, so observable in conversation; for whilst the body is confined to present company, the mind is flown to that which it delights in.”

Mary Astell

About This Quote

Source Book: A Serious Proposal to the Ladies, 1694

The mind drifts to beloved thoughts even when surrounded by activity, causing absent‑mindedness in conversation.

In simple terms: The mind wanders to what it loves despite external surroundings.

Key Takeaway

Allow space for cherished thoughts.

Themes

mindwandering focus contemplation

Mood

reflective thoughtful

Type

philosophical observational

When to use this quote

  • meetings
  • social gatherings
  • workplace
  • family meals

Key Concepts

psychology attention desire

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you balance inner focus with external engagement?
  • What practices keep you present?
A Different Perspective

Mind may miss present details when lost in daydreams.

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