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“Being sociopath is not what most people would consider to be winning. Most of us have some kind of positive goal in mind when we think of winning. A sociopath thinks in terms of successfully manipulating someone into doing something that he or she would not have done otherwise. That can be a small…” quote by Martha Stout
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“Being sociopath is not what most people would consider to be winning. Most of us have some kind of positive goal in mind when we think of winning. A sociopath thinks in terms of successfully manipulating someone into doing something that he or she would not have done otherwise. That can be a small thing or a tremendous thing, but the point for the sociopath is to win, to make sure that this person does what they're trying to coerce him or her into doing. It can be as disgusting and as simple as making a child cry. Or it can be as complex as making your wife feel bad about herself.”

Martha Stout

About This Quote

Source Book: The Sociopath Next Door by Martha Stout, 2005

Winning for a sociopath means manipulating others to fulfill their desires, regardless of harm or morality.

In simple terms: Sociopaths see success as controlling others.

Key Takeaway

Beware manipulation; protect autonomy.

Themes

manipulation psychopathy ethics control victimhood

Mood

cautious reflective alert

Type

warning psychological ethical

When to use this quote

  • personal relationships
  • workplace
  • family
  • online interactions
  • political persuasion

Key Concepts

Power dynamics empathy deficit coercion moral disengagement

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you recognize subtle manipulation?
  • What boundaries protect you from coercion?
A Different Perspective

Manipulation can be subtle, making detection and resistance difficult.

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