“I would hesitate to tell people to stop being kind or sympathetic to sociopath. But just like loyalty, some things that can be taken advantage of are empathy, sympathy, and our tendency to pity somebody when something has gone wrong in their life.”
Empathy and sympathy are exploitable traits; offering kindness to manipulators can enable their harmful behavior.
In simple terms: Kindness can be abused by sociopaths.
Compassion must be discerning.
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Rigidly withholding empathy may dehumanize even those who deserve compassion.
