Deny Quote by Mark Salzman
“If I serve you in hopes of Paradise, deny me Paradise.If I serve thee in fear of hell, condemn me to hell.But if I love thee for love of thyself,then grant me thyself.”
About This Quote
Source Interview: Literary Talk, 2008
Love motivated by self‑interest leads to conditional outcomes, whereas loving for the other's sake grants true freedom and authenticity.
In simple terms: Love for self‑interest limits freedom.
Key Takeaway
Love selflessly for authentic connection.
Themes
love
self‑interest
freedom
Mood
contemplative
inspirational
Type
philosophical
spiritual
When to use this quote
- relationships
- spiritual practice
- ethical decisions
Key Concepts
conditional love
authenticity
Questions to Reflect On
- What does love mean to you?
- How can you practice unconditional love?
A Different Perspective
Self‑less love can be idealized, not always practical.
