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“Id rather be rejected than used because they both amount to the same thing in the end, but being used takes a lot longer.” quote by Marilyn Vos Savant
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“Id rather be rejected than used because they both amount to the same thing in the end, but being used takes a lot longer.”

Marilyn Vos Savant

About This Quote

Source Book: The Book of Numbers, 1995

She prefers rejection over exploitation, noting both end similarly but exploitation prolongs suffering.

In simple terms: Being used is worse than being rejected.

Key Takeaway

Choose autonomy over harmful dependence.

Themes

autonomy exploitation rejection self‑respect

Mood

thoughtful assertive

Type

ethical motivational

When to use this quote

  • workplace
  • relationships
  • online interactions
  • contract negotiations

Key Concepts

ethics personal boundaries psychology

Questions to Reflect On

  • What boundaries protect you from being used?
  • When is it wise to accept help despite risk?
A Different Perspective

Sometimes rejection can be painful and limit opportunities.

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