Choose Quote by Mariana Zapata
““Unfortunately, you don't get to choose family, Sonny had told me once. But you do get to choose everyone else. In this case, I was cherry picking who I was going to spend the gift of my life with.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Wall of Winnipeg and Me by Mariana Zapata, 2015
Choosing partners is a conscious act, unlike family which is given; we can select those who align with our values and aspirations.
In simple terms: You can choose who you love, not your family.
Be intentional about who you share your life with.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- dating
- marriage
- long‑term partnership
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What qualities matter most to you in a partner?
- How do you balance choice with commitment?
Choosing a partner doesn’t guarantee harmony; effort is still required.