Battle Quote by Marian Keyes
“why can't we love the right people? what is so wrong with us that we rush into situations to which we are manifestly unsuited, which will hurt us and others? why are we given emotions which we cannot control and which move in exact contradiction to what we really want? we are walking conflicts, internal battles on legs.”
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Other Side of the Story by Marian Keyes, 2018
We often pursue unsuitable relationships, driven by uncontrolled emotions that clash with our true desires, leading to personal and collateral pain.
In simple terms: We chase the wrong people because emotions mislead us.
Key Takeaway
Recognize and honor your authentic needs before committing.
Themes
relationships
self-awareness
emotional intelligence
Mood
conflicted
reflective
Type
advice
philosophical
When to use this quote
- dating
- friendships
- career choices
- family decisions
Key Concepts
attachment theory
cognitive dissonance
Questions to Reflect On
- What core values are you ignoring?
- How can you better align actions with desires?
A Different Perspective
Emotions are powerful but can be irrational and hard to manage.
