Books Quote by Margie Warrell
““Earlier in this book I noted that one of my favorite sayings is “You get what you tolerate.” This applies in spades to your relationships. Failing to speak up about something carries the implication that you are OK with it—that you are prepared to continue tolerating it. As a companion saying goes, “Silence means consent.” If you tolerate snide or offensive remarks from your boss or colleague, the remarks will continue. If you tolerate your spouse’s lack of consideration for your feelings, it will continue. If you tolerate the disregard of people who regularly turn up late for meetings or social engagements, they will continue to keep you cooling your heels. If you tolerate your child’s lack of respect, you will continue to get no respect. Each time you tolerate a behavior, you are subtly teaching that person that it is OK to treat you that way.””
About This Quote
Source Book: The Power of Tolerance, 2018
Tolerating negative behavior signals acceptance, encouraging its continuation; speaking up is essential.
In simple terms: Silence lets bad behavior persist.
Key Takeaway
Speak up to set boundaries.
Themes
relationships
communication
boundaries
Mood
concerned
motivational
Type
advice
inspirational
When to use this quote
- workplace
- marriage
- friendships
- family gatherings
Key Concepts
psychology
social dynamics
assertiveness
Questions to Reflect On
- What behavior are you tolerating?
- How can you address it constructively?
A Different Perspective
May be too absolute for complex situations.
