Ask yourself Quote by Marcus Aurelius
“Whenever you are about to find fault with someone, ask yourself the following question: What fault of mine most nearly resembles the one I am about to criticize?”
About This Quote
Source Meditations, Book 2, 2nd century AD
Before judging others, reflect on your own similar flaws to foster humility and fairness.
In simple terms: Check yourself before criticizing.
Self‑examination before criticism.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- personal relationships
- leadership
- conflict resolution
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How often do you catch yourself before criticizing?
- What personal fault mirrors the one you notice in others?
Self‑reflection can be uncomfortable and may not change outcomes.