Action Quote by Marcus Aurelius
“It is not the actions of others which trouble us (for those actions are controlled by their governing part), but rather it is our own judgments. Therefore remove those judgments and resolve to let go of your anger, and it will already be gone. How do you let go? By realizing that such actions are not shameful to you.”
About This Quote
Source Book: Meditations, Book 5, 2nd century
Our distress stems from our judgments, not external actions; releasing judgments frees us from anger.
In simple terms: Anger comes from how we interpret events.
Practice non‑judgmental awareness to dissolve anger.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- conflict resolution
- personal relationships
- stress management
- mindfulness practice
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What judgments fuel your anger?
- How can you reframe them?
Some judgments are rooted in deep values, making them hard to release.