Art Quote by Marcus Aurelius
““If thou art pained by any external thing, it is not this thing that disturbs thee, but thy own judgement about it. And it is in thy power to wipe out this judgement now. But if anything in thy own disposition gives thee pain, who hinders thee from correcting thy opinion? And even if thou art pained because thou art not doing some particular thing which seems to thee to be right, why dost thou not rather act than complain?””
About This Quote
Source Book: Meditations, Marcus Aurelius, c. 180 AD
External events affect us only through our judgments; we can change those judgments to eliminate suffering.
In simple terms: Suffering comes from how we think, not the events themselves.
Control your thoughts to control your pain.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- personal crises
- conflict
- stress management
- decision making
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you currently judge painful events?
- What judgment could you change to feel better?
Changing deep‑seated beliefs can be difficult and may require time.