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Anger Quote by Marcel Proust

“He laughingly expressed his surprise at having provoked such anger. Perhaps he said this in the hope of minimising in my eyes the importance of his indiscreet intervention, perhaps because he was of a cowardly nature and lived gaily and idly in an atmosphere of falsehood, as jellyfish float upon…” quote by Marcel Proust
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““He laughingly expressed his surprise at having provoked such anger. Perhaps he said this in the hope of minimising in my eyes the importance of his indiscreet intervention, perhaps because he was of a cowardly nature and lived gaily and idly in an atmosphere of falsehood, as jellyfish float upon the surface of the sea, perhaps because, even if he had been a man of a different kind, other people can never see things from our point of view and therefore do not realise the magnitude of the injury that words uttered at random can do us.””

Marcel Proust

About This Quote

Source Novel: In Search of Lost Time, Marcel Proust, 1913

He downplays his provocative words, fearing they cause harm, but acknowledges that words can unintentionally wound others.

In simple terms: Words can hurt, even when meant lightly.

Key Takeaway

Choose words carefully, consider impact.

Themes

communication intent harm

Mood

thoughtful cautious

Type

literary philosophical

When to use this quote

  • personal relationships
  • public discourse
  • writing

Key Concepts

psychology of speech social perception

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you gauge the effect of your words?
  • When should you apologize for unintended harm?
A Different Perspective

Intentions may be misread; impact can be unpredictable.

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