Baby Quote by Marc Weissbluth
““Your baby will likely cry less at sleep onset using this method if Dad is the one putting her down after soothing and Mom has left the house. This is for two reasons. First, your baby knows that Dad cannot nurse, so what is the point of crying? Second, moms are usually more sleep deprived and therefore likely to be inconsistent with the schedule. Mom might go for a walk, get a cup of coffee, or hang out with friends until Dad calls to tell her that the baby is asleep. Some mothers leave not just at bedtime but spend the entire first night away at a friend’s or at a hotel to get some much-needed rest and sleep. If affordable, one night of pampering self-maintenance at a spa hotel is a smart idea for the family and not selfish. Other””
About This Quote
Source Book: Healthy Sleep Habits, Happy Child by Marc Weissbluth, 2005
Babies may cry less at bedtime when the father puts them to sleep because fathers cannot nurse and mothers may be inconsistent due to fatigue.
In simple terms: Dad puts baby down, less crying; mom’s fatigue causes inconsistency.
Key Takeaway
Let dad handle bedtime to reduce crying.
Themes
parenting
sleep
family dynamics
self‑care
fatigue
Mood
practical
empathetic
Type
advice
parenting
When to use this quote
- new parents
- nighttime routine
- family vacations
- spa retreats
- self‑care planning
Key Concepts
attachment
routine
parental roles
sleep hygiene
Questions to Reflect On
- How does parental role affect infant sleep?
- What low‑cost alternatives exist for parental rest?
A Different Perspective
If dad is unavailable, the benefit disappears; some families may not afford spa stays.
