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“It is always taking care, but it is difficult, because at times to take care of her is also to cause her pain.” quote by Maggie Nelson
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““It is always taking care, but it is difficult, because at times to take care of her is also to cause her pain.””

Maggie Nelson

About This Quote

Source Book: The Argonauts by Maggie Nelson, 2015

Caring for someone can be painful because love and hurt are intertwined; responsibility brings both comfort and suffering.

In simple terms: Caring can cause pain as well as comfort.

Key Takeaway

Balance care with self‑care.

Themes

love responsibility pain caregiving relationships

Mood

empathetic reflective serious

Type

ethical emotional

When to use this quote

  • parenting
  • healthcare work
  • friendship support
  • volunteering

Key Concepts

ethical dilemmas emotional labor interpersonal dynamics

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you protect yourself while caring for others?
  • When does caring become harmful?
A Different Perspective

Care may lead to burnout if not managed.

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