Behavior Quote by Lysa TerKeurst
“Feelings are indicators, not dictators. They can indicate where your heart is in the moment, but that doesn't mean they have the right to dictate your behavior and boss you around. You are more than the sum total of your feelings and perfectly capable of that little gift . . . called self-control.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Best Yes, by Lysa TerKeurst, 2014
Feelings signal internal states but should not control actions; self‑control allows rational response to emotions.
In simple terms: Feelings guide, don’t command.
Key Takeaway
Use self‑control to act wisely.
Themes
self‑control
emotional intelligence
personal agency
Mood
reflective
determined
Type
advice
motivational
When to use this quote
- decision making
- conflict resolution
- personal growth
- stress management
Key Concepts
psychology
mindfulness
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you separate feeling from reaction?
- What strategies help you pause before acting?
A Different Perspective
Emotions can be overwhelming, making self‑control difficult.
