Affinity Quote by Lydia Davis
“We feel an affinity with a certain thinker because we agree with him; or because he shows us what we were already thinking; or because he shows us in a more articulate form what we were already thinking; or because he shows us what we were on the point of thinking; or what we would sooner or later have thought; or what we would have thought much later if we hadn’t read it now; or what we would have been likely to think but never would have thought if we hadn’t read it now; or what we would have liked to think but never would have thought if we hadn’t read it now.”
About This Quote
We tend to connect with thinkers who echo our own thoughts, whether they articulate them clearly or anticipate ideas we haven’t yet formed.
In simple terms: We like thinkers who voice our own ideas.
Seek voices that clarify or expand your thinking.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- reading
- academic discussion
- creative brainstorming
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What ideas do you avoid because they feel too familiar?
- How can you challenge your intellectual echo chamber?
Ideas may be biased by familiarity, limiting exposure to truly novel perspectives.