Time Quote by Lydia Davis
““it occurs to me that I must not know altogether what I am, either, and that others know certain things about me better than I do, though I think I ought to know all there is to know and I proceed as if I do. Even once I see this, however, I have no choice but to continue to proceed as if I know altogether what I am, though I may also try to guess, from time to time, just what it is that others know that I do not know.””
About This Quote
Source Book: The Collected Stories of Lydia Davis, 1993
The passage reflects on the paradox of self‑knowledge: we assume we know ourselves fully, yet others perceive aspects we miss, and we keep acting as if we are complete.
In simple terms: We think we know ourselves, but others see what we don’t.
Key Takeaway
Accept uncertainty and seek external perspectives.
Themes
self‑knowledge
humility
perception
identity
learning
Mood
reflective
introspective
Type
philosophical
literary
psychological
When to use this quote
- personal growth
- therapy
- teamwork
- leadership
- creative writing
Key Concepts
epistemology
psychology
existentialism
Questions to Reflect On
- What aspects of yourself might others see more clearly?
- How can you balance confidence with openness?
A Different Perspective
Our bias toward certainty can blind us to hidden insights.
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