Answers Quote by Luther Standing Bear
“Conversation was never begun at once, nor in a hurried manner. No one was quick with a question, no matter how important, and no one was pressed for an answer. A pause giving time for thought was the truly courteous way of beginning and conducting a conversation. Silence was meaningful with the Lakota, and his granting a space of silence to the speech-maker and his own moment of silence before talking was done in the practice of true politeness and regard for the rule that, "thought comes before speech."”
About This Quote
Source Speech: Lakota tradition, early 20th century
Polite conversation values pauses, allowing thought before speaking, reflecting respect and mindfulness.
In simple terms: Pause before speaking shows respect.
Key Takeaway
Practice thoughtful listening and measured response.
Themes
respect
mindfulness
communication
Mood
reflective
calm
Type
philosophical
cultural
When to use this quote
- meetings
- negotiations
- teaching
- public speaking
Key Concepts
Indigenous etiquette
oral tradition
Questions to Reflect On
- How can silence improve understanding?
- When is quick response more appropriate?
A Different Perspective
Modern fast-paced dialogue may find pauses uncomfortable.
