Approach Quote by Ludwig Wittgenstein
“No one likes having offended another person; hence everyone feels so much better if the other person doesn't show he's been offended. Nobody likes being confronted by a wounded spaniel. Remember that. It is much easier patiently - and tolerantly - to avoid the person you have injured than to approach him as a friend. You need courage for that.”
About This Quote
Source Philosophy: (essay)
Avoid confronting those you’ve hurt; instead, patience and tolerance guide you to keep distance, requiring courage to later reconcile.
In simple terms: It’s easier to avoid than confront the hurt.
Key Takeaway
Cultivate courage to address past harms.
Themes
ethics
courage
conflict resolution
patience
social dynamics
Mood
reflective
serious
Type
philosophical
ethical
When to use this quote
- personal apologies
- mediated dialogues
- self‑reflection
- community building
Key Concepts
moral philosophy
interpersonal relationships
Questions to Reflect On
- What prevents you from confronting someone?
- How can you build courage for reconciliation?
A Different Perspective
Avoidance may prolong resentment.
