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Kindness Quote by Ludmilla Petrushevskaya

“I never "toured" that courtyard again. We avoid places where we've endured pain, but the opposite is true, too. Extreme kindness can be repaid only with ingratitude. What if the miracle won't repeat itself and life's greatest consolation-remembering the kindness shown to us-disappears? Those…” quote by Ludmilla Petrushevskaya
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““I never "toured" that courtyard again. We avoid places where we've endured pain, but the opposite is true, too. Extreme kindness can be repaid only with ingratitude. What if the miracle won't repeat itself and life's greatest consolation-remembering the kindness shown to us-disappears? Those little faces won't be there, and the green sweater won't be offered. This way, they are always with me. The crown of hungry children, the dark stairs, the open door, the outstretched hand, and someone's mother, crying, her face invisible against the light.””

Ludmilla Petrushevskaya

About This Quote

Source Novel: “The Time of Women” (fictional title), 2015

Trauma leads us to avoid painful places, yet kindness can feel unreciprocated, leaving lingering longing for lost compassion.

In simple terms: Pain pushes us away; kindness may feel unreturned.

Key Takeaway

Seek healing while honoring past kindness.

Themes

trauma kindness memory loss

Mood

melancholic hopeful

Type

reflective literary

When to use this quote

  • therapy
  • friendship
  • family dynamics
  • community support
  • null

Key Concepts

reciprocity gratitude psychological resilience

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you reconcile unreciprocated kindness?
  • What rituals preserve the memory of compassionate acts?
A Different Perspective

Kindness may not be repaid, but its memory endures.

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