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“I was hoping that by very publicly going to the police, other people would follow suit. Around this time was the whole Rehtaeh Parsons publication ban bullshit. She died because she couldn't handle the stress of having been assaulted and ridiculed for having been raped. And I was like, "I'm not…” quote by Lucy DeCoutere
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“I was hoping that by very publicly going to the police, other people would follow suit. Around this time was the whole Rehtaeh Parsons publication ban bullshit. She died because she couldn't handle the stress of having been assaulted and ridiculed for having been raped. And I was like, "I'm not going to turn into Rehtaeh Parsons for this. I will remain public."”

Lucy DeCoutere

About This Quote

Source Interview: Public Statement on Rehtaeh Parsons case, 2013

She chose to stay public despite personal risk, refusing to become a tragic symbol.

In simple terms: She remained public, not becoming a tragic example.

Key Takeaway

Stand firm in advocacy while protecting personal wellbeing.

Themes

advocacy media trauma

Mood

determined somber

Type

personal activist

When to use this quote

  • activism
  • media campaigns
  • support groups

Key Concepts

public pressure ethical responsibility

Questions to Reflect On

  • How to balance visibility with self‑care?
  • When is silence more powerful?
A Different Perspective

Public exposure can worsen personal trauma.

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