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Accepted Quote by Louise Hay

“It's what we all wanted when we were children- to be loved and accepted exactly as we were then, not when we got taller or thinner or prettier...and we still want it... but we aren't going to get it from other people until we can get it from ourselves.” quote by Louise Hay
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“It's what we all wanted when we were children- to be loved and accepted exactly as we were then, not when we got taller or thinner or prettier...and we still want it... but we aren't going to get it from other people until we can get it from ourselves.”

Louise Hay

About This Quote

Source Book: You Can Heal Your Life by Louise Hay, 1984

Children crave unconditional love and acceptance; adults often seek it externally, but true fulfillment comes from self‑acceptance.

In simple terms: We need love from ourselves first.

Key Takeaway

Cultivate self‑love and acceptance.

Themes

self‑esteem psychology relationships

Mood

hopeful empowering

Type

self‑help philosophical

When to use this quote

  • therapy
  • personal growth
  • dating
  • parenting

Key Concepts

Self‑acceptance inner validation

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you practice self‑acceptance daily?
  • What habits reinforce reliance on others for validation?
A Different Perspective

Self‑acceptance is challenging when external validation is ingrained.

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