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“Before my daughter was lost to me, I might have attributed his apparent stillness and control to a lack of feeling, but now I know, to my cost, that appearing unfeeling is the price we sometimes pay for being able to speak at all.” quote by Louise Doughty
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““Before my daughter was lost to me, I might have attributed his apparent stillness and control to a lack of feeling, but now I know, to my cost, that appearing unfeeling is the price we sometimes pay for being able to speak at all.””

Louise Doughty

About This Quote

Source Novel: Apple Tree Yard, 2013

Appearing unemotional can be a coping mechanism for those who must speak despite inner pain.

In simple terms: Unfeeling can be a protective mask.

Key Takeaway

Recognize hidden pain behind stoicism.

Themes

psychology communication trauma

Mood

introspective empathetic

Type

psychological literary

When to use this quote

  • therapy sessions
  • family conversations
  • public speaking

Key Concepts

defense mechanisms emotional labor

Questions to Reflect On

  • What emotions are you hiding?
  • How does silence affect your relationships?
A Different Perspective

Masking emotions can hinder authentic connection.

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