Friend Quote by Lisa Feldman Barrett
““Instead think, “We have a disagreement,” and engage your curiosity to learn your friend’s perspective. Being curious about your friend’s experience is more important than being right.””
About This Quote
Source Book: How Emotions Are Made, Lisa Feldman Barrett, 2017
Approach disagreements as curiosity, valuing understanding over being right.
In simple terms: Be curious, not confrontational.
Key Takeaway
Prioritize learning over winning.
Themes
empathy
conflict resolution
growth
Mood
thoughtful
encouraging
Type
psychological
relationship
When to use this quote
- team meetings
- friendship disputes
- family discussions
- negotiations
Key Concepts
Emotional intelligence
dialogue
Questions to Reflect On
- How can curiosity defuse tension?
- When have you chosen learning over winning?
A Different Perspective
Some may view curiosity as indecisiveness.
