Admiring Quote by Lionel Shriver
“We are not attracted to people because they are virtuous. In fact, there's something a little creepy about people who are too good. There is a big draw to people who are successful at breaking the rules. That means we end up admiring a lot of people that we think we shouldn't.”
About This Quote
Source Essay: The Unbearable Lightness of Being Good, Lionel Shriver, 2015
People are drawn to rule‑breakers because they embody excitement and rebellion, while virtue can seem dull or threatening.
In simple terms: We often admire those who defy norms more than the virtuous.
Key Takeaway
Recognize the appeal of rebellion but value integrity.
Themes
desire
virtue
rebellion
psychology
attraction
Mood
cynical
analytical
Type
philosophical
observational
When to use this quote
- media consumption
- dating
- career advancement
- friendship circles
Key Concepts
moral ambiguity
social dynamics
celebrity culture
Questions to Reflect On
- Why do we romanticize rebels?
- Can virtue be presented more compellingly?
A Different Perspective
Admiration of rule‑breakers can overlook harmful consequences.
