Accompany Quote by Lillian B. Rubin
“The authoritarian child-rearing style so often found in working-class families stems in part from the fact that parents see aroundthem so many young people whose lives are touched by the pain and delinquency that so often accompanies a life of poverty. Therefore, these parents live in fear for their children's future--fear that they'll lose control, that the children will wind up on the streets or, worse yet, in jail.”
About This Quote
Source Book: Children of the Poor, 1995, Lillian B. Rubin
Working‑class parents adopt strict child‑rearing because they fear poverty’s cycle and its violent outcomes.
In simple terms: Parents are strict due to fear of poverty and crime.
Key Takeaway
Address systemic poverty to reduce fear‑based parenting.
Themes
poverty
parenting
social anxiety
crime
class dynamics
Mood
empathetic
concerned
Type
sociological
analytical
When to use this quote
- social work
- policy making
- family counseling
Key Concepts
intergenerational trauma
social control
community safety
Questions to Reflect On
- How can community support reduce parental fear?
- What policies can break the poverty‑crime cycle?
A Different Perspective
Fear may not be the only factor; other resources matter.
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