Depends Quote by Lillian B. Rubin
“The depth of a friendship - how much it means to us ... depends, at least in part, upon how many parts of ourselves a friend sees, shares and validates.”
About This Quote
Source Article: The Psychology of Friendship, 1995
Friendship depth depends on how much a friend sees, shares, and validates parts of ourselves.
In simple terms: Friendship thrives on mutual understanding.
Cultivate authentic sharing.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- counseling
- team building
- intimate relationships
- support groups
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What parts of yourself do you reveal to close friends?
- How does validation affect your sense of belonging?
If validation is lacking, connection may stay superficial.